• On being out, and the direction of the MAP community.

    This was part of a conversation I had with a fellow MAP on  May 24, 2023. So to be an out MAP, ideally, a lot of things have to line up. You have to make sure you’re safe – safe

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  • Love is Colorful

    Love is love, and having feelings doesn’t make one a monster. The law was written in black and white. But love is colorful. We can’t condone breaking the law, but the law isn’t always the arbiter of what is ethical.

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  • No one can tell you how you feel.

    Excerpt from a conversation I had with another MAP Just know that having an orientation doesn’t make you a monster. It doesn’t mean you are destined to act unethically. You explained your feelings for children in your previous email. Don’t

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  • The Simple List

    Simple List of MAP Goals The Simple List © 2023 by The MAP Community is licensed under CC BY-ND 4.0  The goal of the Simple List is to give the MAP community an easy-to-read, communicate, and understand platform to work towards, without being divisive along

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  • Is minor attraction a sin in the Christian faith?

    This piece was originally published on Aug 7, 2023. Just wanna address a post directed at me about Christianity and minor attraction. Dear Bowsac Noodle, First: Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Jesus hung out with

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  • The Keys to Self-Acceptance

    This piece was originally published Mar 24, 2023. I was recently asked how I was able to accept myself as a minor-attracted person. It was only after I realized: I didn’t choose this orientation. An unchosen orientation doesn’t make one

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